When I Use a Dating App


I was so interested in some anonymous hook up apps last winter and one of my best male friend told me he found his girlfriend in an app . I knew his girlfriend so I decided to have a try in such an app. Chatting with some handsome boys is what I was looking for. Aha, as long as I think a handsome boy was chatting with me, I was excited even I didn’t know his personality at all. You can call me a looking-prefered person. 

After I downloaded the app and registered, I uploaded some basic information about myself, such as name, gender, age, gender orientation and type of preference. Indeed, this app is not only used for hookup, but also for communication between people. I liked it a lot. Then I started chatting. The chat above is basically free, and the only place you may need to pay was to see who viewed you and gave you roses just now. I didn't really need this information. So, I could use this app totally free. After chatting for half an hour, I met a person who was quite nice. So, basically every day I chatted with this boy. I had been chatting for about half a month. I think it was time to make an appointment with him. But I found that he didn't reply to my messages some times, so I was very curious. Then one day he suddenly told me that he was not a boy but a girl. It's because she liked girls that she sets her gender as male so that she could communicate with girls more easily. I could only say I was stunned at that time. I had no offence to Lesbian because some of my friends were one of them and I respected their gender preference. What made more angry was that she lied to me for many times. If I didn’t ask her out, she might lie to me in the end. This thing made me  have a bad impression for this app and I stopped using it. 

 After I came back after I used some famous hookup apps. But I found most people were just looking for going to bed in other apps. Although I was not very happy in this app, now people would ask me hook up for the night I just knew him. This time, I would ask the partners their photos and gender orientation before we agreed to see each other because I didn’t want to have the same experience.  This time, I had chatted with a guy for two weeks in a row and he seemed like me. He asked me out and I said yes. I figured out all thing I wanted to know and he replied to me one by one. He was a patient person, I guessed. We met in a park and wandered for two hours. He took his dogs and I took my cat. I should say it was not a bad day. Gradually, he became my boyfriend although we break up now. 

    I want to tell girls when using a hookup dating app, you should figure out what your partner likes at first in case of some potential jokes.