People often say that don’t drink too much before having a threesome. However, I think there are 30% of threesomes happen when people get drunk. Having fet life when you are drunk could lead to a disaster for everyone, because your mind is no longer in control. You could break the boundaries set by someone without even notice. If you fall asleep during it, it might be the best scenario. The best choice is to drink a little, enough for you to brave up, but not too much until you don’t even know who you are. A little alcohol can ease the atmosphere and boost your confidence. I learned this lesson from a personal experience.
When I was married to my husband, he was not a swinger and I was not very experienced in it too. He never had a couple dating and I had several. We planned to have a 3som together one day. We even set boundaries after we decided. I told him that I couldn’t accept it if he penetrates the third girl. He told me that I was not allowed to make eye contact with the third if it were a male. We all cleared with that. After a long time, we didn’t bring it up again, because we were busy with our own work during that time.
After about a month, we went to a bar together to celebrate my promotion, along with several of his colleagues. We ordered many drinks. He had a lot of drinks that night. I didn’t know how many he drank, but it is too much. We were the two who left last. When we were about to leave, there was a girl came to us. She was cute and had a very nice body. She started to flirt with us, particularly me. I soon got what she meant. I looked at my husband, he was into her too. Soon, she told us that she lives upstairs and asked if we would like to join her. I was hesitated, because my husband was quite not himself. I tried to refuse, but my husband answered “yes” faster than I did. So we went with her.
After getting into her room, we soon started to undress each other. The girl was naked right away and then me. My husband was so hot and turned on when seeing me kissing her. Even with his heavy smell, we had a lot of fun and pleasure until he forgot our boundaries.
He penetrated the girl from her back. I saw him doing that without hesitation. I looked at him and he didn’t know the reason. I was so furious. I lost appetite right away. I stopped him and grabbed him home. We even didn’t finish it. The girl was pretty confused, but I didn’t care to explain to her. In the taxi, my husband explained to me that he was too drunk to remember anything, but the damage was already there.